Perhaps I'm projecting but he seems a little scared. His body language - his arms down, kind of hiding his face, looking down. He seems nervous and he doesn't get fully erect. Perhaps there isn't enough trust there - maybe he hasn't known you all very long and here he tied up and blindfolded while a man in the background gives direction? Also, it sounds like there's a music AND TV playing in the background. Not exactly a romantic or sexy ambience. But that's just me Other than that, I always enjoy seeing the lighthearted playfulness of Linda's videos!